tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7093138572364986509.post6192892336749407944..comments2023-05-20T03:53:08.157-04:00Comments on 'my world': february meeting of meet you at the sunset...michelle hshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15303053726721984880noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7093138572364986509.post-30320127587431765902010-03-12T04:58:27.570-05:002010-03-12T04:58:27.570-05:00I'm so sorry for your loss of Xavier.
I'...I'm so sorry for your loss of Xavier. <br /><br />I'm sorry that your husband felt he couldn't love a third child. <br /><br />My husband went back to work just a week after we lost Bailey, and I felt he pushed me into my new life without Bailey too soon and when I wasn't ready. In my husband's way, he grieved for our son, but he felt it more through me.<br /><br />Take care.Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17193223848445696410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7093138572364986509.post-91310556274042058572010-03-02T22:38:56.216-05:002010-03-02T22:38:56.216-05:00I'm so sorry Michelle. The going back to work...I'm so sorry Michelle. The going back to work thing is normal. My hubby did it too, they just do things differently.<br /><br />As for not wanting your third child, that must make you feel really resentful. I wonder if part of his withdrawal is because he feels guilty about feeling that way? Is it possible he blames himself? <br /><br />Your grief sounds very normal to me. Nine months is still so fresh. I am so Sorry Xavier is not here.Sophiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17663682329663202706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7093138572364986509.post-39051987355409059672010-03-02T19:59:41.214-05:002010-03-02T19:59:41.214-05:00I am so sorry that Andy does not feel the same as ...I am so sorry that Andy does not feel the same as do and/or did about Xavier. Maybe part of your grieving is also over how Andy has reacted. Have you thought of talking to someone together as a couple? I am praying for you Michelle. **Hugs**Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10088591068135121706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7093138572364986509.post-68717559255849349832010-03-02T11:07:45.684-05:002010-03-02T11:07:45.684-05:00I'm sorry your husband doesn't accept your...I'm sorry your husband doesn't accept your grief. Big hugs and prayers going up for you.Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09791014849753457498noreply@blogger.com